Lesson 6: I am upset because I see something that is not there

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Summary

Lesson 6 teaches that we are upset because we see something that is not there. It challenges the validity of our perceptions and invites us to question the reality of our interpretations. The lesson emphasizes that our minds often project meaning onto situations and create illusions that cause emotional distress. It encourages us to recognize that what we perceive as external triggers for our upset are actually reflections of our own inner thoughts and beliefs. By acknowledging the illusory nature of our interpretations, we can begin to unravel the mental patterns that cause suffering and choose a more peaceful and forgiving perspective.

Lesson Text

The exercises with this idea are very similar to the preceding ones. Again, it is necessary to name both the form of upset (anger, fear, worry, depression and so on) and the perceived source very specifically for any application of the idea. For example:

I am angry at _________ because I see something that is not there.

I am worried about _________ because I see something that is not there.

Today’s idea is useful for application to anything that seems to upset you, and can profitably be used throughout the day for that purpose. However, the three or four practice periods which are required should be preceded by a minute or so of mind searching, as before, and the application of the idea to each upsetting thought uncovered in the search.

Again, if you resist applying the idea to some upsetting thoughts more than to others, remind yourself of the two cautions stated in the previous lesson:

There are no small upsets. They are all equally disturbing to my peace of mind.

I cannot keep this form of upset and let the others go. For the purposes of these exercises, then, I will regard them all as the same.